Hi Michelle,
Many traditional anti-stone formulas lack a basis in science. I'm not sure what's in the Mayway one. A substantial amount of research centers around Alisma, however, and formulas that contain it, like Wei Ling Tang and Wu Ling San. Wu Ling San, which is part of Wei Ling Tang, has shown an impressive ability to limit CaOx stone size, number, and rate of formation. It's not clear how it's pulling this off, but I suspect it is actually due to limiting the generation of nidi, around which crystals accrete. If so, that maybe why we're seeing CaOx stones also be limited and disappear with the use of San Ren Tang (which contains no Alisma) and Dang Gui Shao Yao San (which does). In all cases, I suspect what actually is going on is that stones in bladders are not inert, but in a constant state of flux that varies with urine concentration. Some may disappear entirely, and the problem is that they are replaced quickly, due top persistent formation of nidi through chronic inflammation. Long story short: if we introduce one of these formulas (as appropriate, depending on the presentation) and perhaps for a while something like potassium citrate as a supplement, we're seeing all CaOx stones dissolve completely, or at least to a point where they are small enough to be passed. After this, they don't seem to re-form. We've noted this approach to be successful in both animals and people on a routine basis.
So, my advice is choose among WLT, SRT, DGSYS, or even WLS. Maybe for a month or two, in the case of CaOx, you could also prescribe potassium citrate, but longer than this does not seem necessary.
Given this model I've painted here, movement away from carbohydrate based (Damp producing) diets will help, primarily by limiting nidi. We've found low protein diets to be completely unnecessary, and given this suspicion of nidi as the problem, I would venture the opinion they are detrimental.
Anyway, let us know how it works out for you.
Steve